面对心仪的offer,如何表述？面对不爽的offer，如何委婉地拒绝呢？

一亩三分地论坛里hujane提了一个问题:

[quote]现在都开始下offer的毛毛雨了，相信大雨很快就会到来！！！这时候，有的童鞋会拿到好多offer,面对心仪的offer,如何表述把话说得很死呢？面对不爽的offer，又如何委婉地拒绝呢？我现在就面临一个问题，就是如何表决 … hujane 发表于 2011-2-2 09:39 [/quote]

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如果您是位狠角, 拿说话当啥啥, 我就不评论了. 如果你不想胡乱给承诺, 那例子如下:

I want your offer的说法: –关键就是说如何感兴趣, 亲爱的教授啊, 嫩就是我的最佳选择. 这里表达的是兴趣, 但是除非你就是决定了一定会去, 尽量不要明确而直接的说, yes, I will accept it. 如果这样说了，后面再改口, 就是你的不对了.

your research is absolutely interesting. I couldn’t think of any other lab/professor that conducts such exciting/interesting research on XXX. Since I am determined to work on XXX, your lab/group is my best choice. I am particularly impressed by your achievements such as blablabla 说两句具体的科研成就．

I reject your offer的说法:–关键就是要强调非学术原因, 这样比较委婉．当然, 如果你其他的offer更好,　也可以直说, 老师看到了，也不会自讨没趣．

It’s really a very difficult choice for me and I have been hesitating a lot recently. Your research is great/attractive/exciting, but I am sorry to tell you that I decide not to join your lab. I made this decision based on some non-academic reasons/factors (closer to big cities like NYC, large chinese community around Y univ., your uncle lives close to YYY so you have to go there. you choose boston/New England because you may encounter a very attractive old ShuShu called Warald in a mall or grocery store etc etc)

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